• My way :: your way

• Control :: trust

• Doing :: delegating

• Relaxed :: driven

• Care for self :: care for others

• Minimize conflict :: embrace conflict

• Follow rules :: question rules

• Perfect :: good enough

• Tell :: ask

• Trusting :: skeptical

• Evolutionary :: revolutionary

• Think :: feel

• Urgent :: patient

• Disrupt :: stabilize

• Wield power :: share power

• Guide :: empower

• Exude competence :: exude warmth

• Competitive :: collaborative

• Planned :: opportunistic

• Diplomatic :: candid

• Power in knowing :: power in not knowing

• Analysis :: intuition

• Relationship :: task

• Challenge :: support

• Confidence :: humility

• Leading :: following

• Visionary :: pragmatic

• Accommodating :: demanding

• Daring :: careful

• Calming :: stimulating

• Fast :: thorough

• Directive :: participative

• Individual decisions :: team decisions

• Strategy :: execution

• Efficiency :: effectiveness

• Stability :: change

• Innocent :: political

• Soft-spoken :: forceful

• Fun :: focused

• Focus on results :: focus on process

• Creative :: logical

• Action :: reflection

• Hold lightly :: take seriously

• Appreciate what is :: ask for more

• Develop bonds :: maintain distance

• Diverse :: homogeneous

• Spend :: save

• Form :: function

• Simple :: detailed

• Customize :: standardize

• Formal :: informal

• Broad :: narrow

• Spontaneous :: planned

• Freedom :: security

• Long term :: short term

• Trust in self :: trust in others

• Mission :: margin (common in nonprofits)